Sometimes, taking a break from social media is applauded as self-care. But when the silence stretches into real life, especially on milestone day, one can’t help but ask: Is absence still healthy then? Perhaps this is a question best reserved for Innocent “2Baba” Idibia.
Over the weekend, Sumbo Adeoye, mother of the music icon Tuface Idibia’s sons, Nino and Zion, shared proud moments from Zion’s matriculation ceremony at Pan-Atlantic University. The photos told a warm story: beaming smiles and the unmistakable glow of a mother watching her child cross a major milestone.

In the frames were Sumbo herself, her husband, Pastor David Adeoye, and the star of the day, Zion Idibia, Sumbo’s second child with 2Baba. What the photos didn’t capture, however, was just as loud as what they did.
As netizens swiped left and right, one familiar face remained missing. No signature glasses, no quiet presence in the background and so the comment section did what it does best: ask questions. “Where is his father?” “Where is 2Baba?” they wondered, some gently, others not so gently.
Interestingly, praise poured in for Pastor David Adeoye, applauded for consistently showing up and standing in the gap, an act many described as fatherhood beyond biology. Yet, beneath the compliments lingered an uncomfortable curiosity: when it mattered most, where was the real dad?
In a world where presence is currency, sometimes absence makes the loudest statement of all.
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