Media personality Toke Makinwa has shared her thoughts on the qualities women should look for in a life partner, emphasising emotional maturity, empathy, and effective communication over pride.
In a post shared on her social media page, Toke encouraged women to choose partners who prioritise the relationship above their ego, especially during disagreements.
“Marry the man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you’re okay. Not the one who leaves you alone with your tears,” she wrote.
According to her, a healthy relationship is built on understanding rather than winning arguments.
“Choose the man who stays when things get hard and wants to understand you, not defeat you,” she added.
The media personality also stressed the importance of accountability in relationships, urging women to choose partners who are willing to apologise and make peace when necessary.
“A man who can pause, hold you, and say, ‘I’m sorry,’ because your relationship matters more to him than his ego,” she concluded.
Her comments have sparked conversations on social media, with many agreeing that emotional intelligence and conflict resolution are essential qualities in a successful marriage, while others argued that the responsibility for reconciliation should not rest on one partner alone.